Review: What Does Baby Want? by Tupera Tupera

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When baby is hungry, neither his teddy bear, his ball, nor even his shiny tambourine will soothe him. This tribute to the nursing baby - and even more so, to the breastfeeding mother - will read as conventional to babies and toddlers but as taboo-busting to parents. Celebrate the natural magic of growing a baby with this simply worded, expertly illustrated, and shockingly honest shaped board book. Perfect for nursing babies, older siblings, and expectant parents. A sure-to-be favorite baby shower gift!

I kind of hate the phrase "normalizing breast feeding", because that implies there was something abnormal about it to begin with - but, you get the idea. While that is the obvious goal, the book isn't obnoxiously over the top or preachy - just a simple recognition that sometimes you're just plain hangry, or need a little comfort!

Even if you haven't read the description, it is pretty obvious from the shape (especially opened) what exactly baby is looking for. The pictures along the way of ball, teddy, etc. are bright and simple, a good choice for board books. Baby's expressions are easy to recognize, as he starts off smiling but gets increasingly unhappy, until he finally gets his point across to Mommy. The images of exposed breasts and then baby suckling may surprise some readers, who will then wonder why they were surprised. All the more reason to add it to the collection!

My only beef is the shape - while it fits right in with the theme, this is going to be a nightmare to shelve. In fact, when I first saw it advertised, I decided not to buy it for that reason alone.  The actual spine/binding is just over 2 inches long, and I am not sure how long that will last. We are also having to be creative with the spine label placement, because otherwise it will cover the entire title. I am hoping they will come out with a second version, if popularity warrants, with a round picture but squared-off outside cover.

Fort Stanton Live 2017

Apparently, this is one of those things everyone except me knew about. I had just learned of Fort Stanton's annual event last year, and I knew my 11-year-old history buff would love it. Turns out every tenth person we saw was from our town, and had been coming for years!

Fort Stanton was originally built as part of the war with the Apaches, so we had a few conversations before we went about how some people think different = bad = okay to take your stuff. Sheridan asked if that was why Christopher and Logan are always wrestling, because their ancestors fought. Um, sure, honey, that's why.

Since then the fort has also been used in the Civil War, as a camp for German citizens during WWII (not POWs - these were actually the staff of a luxury liner who nobody knew what to do with!), as a TB hospital, and as a rehab center. It was only turned over as a state monument twenty years ago, and it is really impressive what they have done with the place so far!

There were reenactors galore, many of who camped out overnight in old military tents on the grounds.

Why is only ONE person blurry? Maybe he was a ghost?

The military barracks is set up beautifully, with both recreated and authentic materials.

Soaking it in.

I love that the kids are getting old enough (and interested enough) to wander and read descriptions themselves.

One of Mike's old shooting partners, Lanny Maddox, was playing Native American flute in the chapel. It didn't seem appropriate to take pictures inside, but the music echoing off the stone walls was beautiful. We did snap a picture outside.

There were dozens and dozens of things to check out up close.

Christopher getting a mini lesson on musketry.

Trying out some old ink pens

 Several shows in the stage area - Here we have Dr. Bob's Medicine Show, followed later by a group from the Flying J Ranch.

In fact, there was so much going on, it was hard to get to everything we wanted to see!

Even the re-enactors were trying to get it all in.

 Drills going on throughout the day.

I think this was Shane's favorite: kids could help hand grind coffee beans with this highly entertaining gentleman. Shane had to sniff every. single. batch.

The same gentleman showed us a homemade turkey call, just like his father taught him to make.

It sounded exactly like the hens we get around here!

I could have watched his hands for hours.

There were pottery, spinning, weaving, black smithing, and lace making demonstrations, with people happy to provide all sorts of details and instructions. The spinners gave us some ideas for the small bit of wool Logan has been hoarding from an earlier sheep sheering demonstration.

And, cannons!

Four different cannons, some local, this one from the panhandle of Texas. They fired them off separately, then all together. Afterward kids (and adults) got to explore closer, handling the cannon balls and equipment and seeing up close how they worked and what everything was called.

And there were periodic bunnies. I am assuming they live at the fort.

This is one of the few events to which you can still take your dog, by the way, and we got to scratch lots of ears and receive kisses in return.

I think the kids had fun.

I started snapping pictures of these three by a little sample garden,

and some guy with a camera popped in front of me and started snapping away. I ASSUME he was a reporter or something...but he was especially fascinated with Shane. "His eyes just SHINE!" Oh, boy...because the kid doesn't already think he's adorable...

Oh, a horse too! There is a stables area, but we never made it to that. Fortunately, this lovely came out to meet with people (and eat all the grass on the parade ground).

We were going to eat lunch there, but the lines were long (and the prices were high), so we settled on some kettle corn

while waiting for the Mescalero Dancers.

Yes, I asked for permission to photograph first.

Both drummers and dancers are from the Chee family.

 Christopher refused to join the circle dance, but Sheridan and Logan were eager.

Shane preferred to be a Daddy's boy.

We had a birthday party to go to, so we headed out after that. Fortunately, the kids were tired and slept all the way home.

Or not.

Definitely one we will be going to again next year! Worth the day trip for a tour as well, and from what I hear they offer excellent field trips for students of all ages. If you are in the area at all, check it out!

Builder's Club - Summer Edition

This. was. SO MUCH FUN!

We do Builder's Club once a month during the school year, just a couple hours on a Saturday afternoon where kids can come in and create whatever they want with Legos, Duplos, etc. I only had time to schedule it once this summer, but I know a lot of kids were looking forward to it!

Inside I set out the usual tables with a mix of Legos and base plates,

Plus a table with these thingies someone donated.

Our carpet area had the Duplos (see, small pieces on tables, safer things at crawler level)

And the Mega Blocks on the stage.

That's probably a thousand dollars worth of building toys so far. Fortunately, what I didn't already have at home was donated bit by bit. We did purchase some base plates and Lego figures, but that has been our only cost.

Kids were waiting at the door while I set up, and got right to work!

So serious!

I never saw who made this, it just appeared. Later, there was a ball. These things are magic!

Some moms even found time to read a grown-up book!

Lots of baby-wearing mommies chatting while the kids created, which makes my heart happy. Adults really need the chance to make connections and enjoy each others company, too!

Outside we had mostly free stuff - trash! I went dumpster diving at Dollar General and had people saving boxes and cans for me for a month. We had old plastic trays someone donated a while back, and I added a few rolls of masking tape left over from a teen activity. We just piled it all in the grass and stood back.

THIS was where the real fun happened.

This house went through a dozen or so metamorphoses over the course of two hours.

Se the center support they put in there to keep the roof up? Nobody told them to do that! At one point there were TEN KIDS inside there!

I'm not entirely sure what was going on with the cans at times, but it all looked like fun.

I thought this looked like a stove (my messy stove, to be exact), but was informed it was a castle.

View inside the house during a brief uninhabited period

Again, I have no idea what was going on here, but it was all very purposeful. 

It was like watching a colony of ants - everyone seemed to be communicating mostly telepathically. There was no project manager telling anyone what the plan was, they all just scurried about carrying things, building, adjusting, changing. No squabbles I saw, when something caved in they just rebuilt differently. Many kids spent the entire two hours working away out here (after the first hour I grabbed bottled water for everyone!)

 No electronics, no instructions, just imagination and drive. High five, everyone!